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***SUCCESS STORY***
Hi Dave,
After reading your book, I put many of your tactics into action. I work in a casino, so I get to meet a lot of beautiful young women. Once I got over the initial reluctance to ask them
for their email/phone number, I started getting quite a few numbers in a night. The other night there was a woman who was so gorgeous, it hurt. I walked over and chatted with her for
a few minutes, then asked if she had email. She said "Sure, I do! Let me write it down for you." Without asking she put down her phone number as well. The younger guys who work for me
now call me a "God". They have no idea how I can do it. Better looking guys are complaining that I get more phone numbers and emails in one night than they've got their whole lives. One
of the women was classic. She looked like Sheryl Crow and Jennifer Aniston combined. She complained she wasn't winning on the machine and asked me what
the secret was. I said, "I don't know the secret today, but if I figure it out, I'll email it to you. All I need now is your email address and your phone number in case email is down." She was
taken aback, but asked for my pen and wrote it down. Now instead of being alone on my days off, I have a lot of options which are all great
ones. Thanks for your advice and changing me out of wuss mode. I.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Options are great, aren't they? And isn't it amazing how a woman will give out her email and number if you just talk for a few minutes and then ask for it? I can remember when I first
started learning this stuff... it seemed to me that no woman in her right mind would just give out her phone number to a complete stranger...
But then I discovered that no woman is actually IN her right mind! (Or at least this is my logical deduction, because they all seem to give out their phone numbers and email addresses so
readily!) But to get back to the concept of "options"... When you, as a guy, have options, it changes EVERYTHING.
When you have a date that evening plus three women to email or call, things are TOTALLY DIFFERENT than when you have nothing going on. You feel different, you talk different, and
you communicate in a different way.
I believe that one of the reasons that attractive women come across so powerfully is because they KNOW that they have options. And one of the benefits of learning how to be more
successful with women and dating is that you learn to CREATE YOUR OWN OPTIONS. When you know that you can walk out the door anytime you want
and meet women, it frees up a lot of mental energy that was previously focused on other things. Energy you can use to improve other areas of your life...
Thanks for your email... it's inspiring.
***QUESTION***
Hey, David.
I've read DYD, have been getting your newsletters, totally understand what's going on. I've seen it working, and know it's for real. But I've got a BIG problem. I've got to recondition
myself from more years than I care to admit of
doing things the wrong way. I always idolized superheroes like Batman & Superman who always acted with the utmost respect and decorum. Like musclebound male versions of Miss
Manners. My heroes were modest, reliable, helpful, well- mannered, and strong (OK -- they're not *totally* lame). Definitely not *cocky*. I always *hated*
mouthy guys who are all show and no go. As for sex, in my younger years it was Catholic training: everything sexual was *evil* (unless you're a priest hitting on the altar boys), and I
was so naive and mixed up I really thought I was going to *hell*. After I wised up and dropped that it was *sexual harassment* that I kept hearing about all the time. The message I got
then is that it's not OK to be sexual until you're already going with
someone. Of course now I know that that only applies to man who a woman is NOT ATTRACTED TO.
OK, so now I *understand*. But am still reflexively *doing* the same wrong things. What's
the best way to actually go about reconditioning my *behavior*? I can be a good smartass when I have the right stimuli, but what's the best way to practice loosening up with the sex
talk? I don't want to klutz things up with awkward, forced attempts on women who *are* good prospects. I can be cool enough to get dates, but want to take it to the next level. The
best thing I can think of is either to practice on female *friends* I've
already written off or go to places I don't really care to hang around regularly, like techno-disco
meat markets where I probably couldn't be as crude and crass as the average ass-grabber if I slammed
a fifth of Daniels and *tried*. This may apply to a lot of other guys who are "struggling with the material." Any better ideas how to get through the learning curve as quickly as possible
without poisoning one's reputation by
being tagged an uber-klutz? FB Michigan
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, you say that you've read my book, but you need to go back through it... remember, it's a reference manual, to be referred to again and again... not a fictional book to be used as
entertainment. If I were you, I'd get online and start chatting with women with instant messenger services and/or in chatrooms, as I describe in
Chapter 7. Bust on them, tease them, talk about every topic you can think of, including sex (make sure
you're talking to women who are of legal age, by the way!). You'll find that starting conversations with
women online and practicing your skills is a lot more convenient when you can do it from the comfort of your computer. And you'll see... it's very easy to talk with women about any
topic. Get over your preconceived ideas, and just do it. And get over this worshipping Batman, dude. Didn't you see the Saturday Night Live skits where
they were mocking him and Robin as the "Ambiguously Gay Duo?" Not good role models, man.

***COMMENT***
Dave my man, I've been reading your advice for a while now and I have to laugh because I discovered several
years ago cocky and funny really work. I am naturally cocky and a smartass to boot, so it usually worked, but not always. Then, my buddy told me something that drives 'em wild. The
dude is 6'3" and 300 lbs, and he always had a good looking woman on his arm. His advice: Show a little interest, then ignore them. Of course I over simplified it, but you know what I
mean. How many men have said that you can't pick up women in a topless bar? I did all the time, and rarely spent any more money than on drinks for myself. The other guys are feeding
the girls dollar bills
and getting no where. I'm just an average looking guy, but the honies went for it like mad. You are
on the mark and anyone that has problems meeting women should heed your advice. PS: I love the way you bust on the chicks that write to you and say how wrong you are!
D.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
lol... thanks! Yes, women really love it when you show some interest, but then don't hang on them. Women, and
especially attractive women, LOVE a good challenge. It's fun for them. And yes, I do enjoy emails from women... both positive and negative. I just wish more women would write me!
(And I wish that when they did
write that they'd send PICTURES! I have gotten a few, but c'mon!)

***QUESTION***
Wasssup!! I just have to tell ya that i think your a god to all guys out there who have trouble with women! I've been reading your e-mails for about two months now and i gotta tell ya,
your a genius!! I haven't even purchased the book yet but everything you say makes perfect sense. So i have decided to purchase Double Your Dating. I can't wait to see how it works
out. I have the hardest time meeting women and the bad thing about it is
most girls think im good looking. But they think im boring.
Here's my question to you. Im not sure about the whole c&f thing, how do i be cocky yet not come across as an a&*hole? And I've really never been the funny type of guy i just don't
know how without saying or doing something that might make me look like a wussy. Can you help a bro out
PLEASE? DW-ks

>>>MY COMMENTS:
OK, here's the basic formula for Cocky & Funny: Take an arrogant comment, then add humor. It's a killer combination. The key is that it HAS TO BE FUNNY. It actually has to make others
laugh. You must make sure that you are Cocky enough, because if you're only FUNNY, then you will come
across as GOOFY, which isn't what you want. So, for instance, you might be at a bar, and you're having a drink. Let's say your drink has too much alcohol in it, and you're going to
comment on it.
An arrogant comment might be: "This bartender sucks. There's too much booze in my drink."
Add a touch of humor, and it turns into: "Whoa, this bartender either loves me or is trying to kill me. This drink is pure alcohol. Is there an AA meeting nearby? Cuz I'm gonna need it
when I'm done with this one."
You feel me? It's the COMBINATION that makes Cocky & Funny work like magic. Too little or too much of either
and you will come off as an idiot. And remember, have fun. Practice is what will help you improve.

***QUESTION***
Dave,
Man, life has changed over the last 4 months since grabbing your book and applying C&F! My friends are amazed at how many women I am dating and life is great! One of the most
important points I have followed from you is breaking down the whole pickup/dating/score routine and approaching each part as a skill I must learn. Got past the email/phone number part,
past the first date and first kiss part, and finally the step towards intimacy. But alas, I'm down to the one skill that I have problems with and that I've never seen you really address: The
graceful exit skill... Let me explain...OK, I meet a girl, we go out, maybe we end up in each other's arms, maybe not,
but there comes a point when I just want to end it and move on to another girl. I always get nervous with the "Well, it's been fun, but we this isn't going to work out so have a good
life..." Do I call and leave a voice mail? Do I phone her? Do I break it off face-to-face? What's the confident, C&F way to leave a girl and not have PLAYER
stamped onto my forehead because of it? Loving life, S.R. P.S. You should pay people for referrals as I have got about 10 of my friends to buy your book! HA HA

>>>MY COMMENTS:
You're a very, very, very bad man. In the best way possible, of course. I think the key to dating more than one woman, or to not seeing a woman more than once or twice is to NOT
ACT LIKE YOU'RE HER BOYFRIEND FROM THE BEGINNING. Women will only resent you if you mislead them. So don't. It's not necessary. Just have fun, be straight up, and enjoy yourself.
You don't have to break something off if it never was "something" to begin with. Are you with me? The big mistake is to call twice a day, see her five times a week, act like her long-lost love, and then drop her without explanation. I think you get what I'm saying.

***SUCCESS STORY***
Dave,
I have been subscribing to the newsletter for about 6 or 8 months and have purchased your ebook a couple after subscribing. Your information has been invaluable and well worth the
price. It has completely changed the way I look at women, I never pine over them anymore and wonder "what's wrong with me". Now I know what was wrong with me, I was a wuss!
But that's all changed now and have become the Jedi Master. I've even come up with some Jedi Techniques of my own. At any rate, I met this one girl at a party one night who I knew
came with a few acquaintances of mine who I told about the party. I got to talking to her and we talked for a few minutes and poured on the C&F, but I never got her info. I know, I
know, the 3 minute technique, but I knew I could
obtain it from her friends, and the way she interacted with me, I knew she wouldn't have minded at all (Important Note: this is my success story, I wouldn't recommend doing things like
this unless you have developed the confidence that your book helps teach). Well, I never had to even asked her friends because two days later, she ended up looking me up in the
University's online student directory and then she looked up my IM name and
IMed me with a "mysterious person" message. I immediately figured out it was her and then accused her of stalking me and told her that's pretty illegal. She almost thought I was mad at
her! It was great! Anyways, she is a real quality girl (not to mention about a 9, not perfect, but gorgeous nonetheless) and we set something up to
go play pool at a local bar where I again poured it on thick. Now mind you, I hadn't made any big advances or anything but as she dropped me off back home, she came in to use the
bathroom. After she came out, she wrapped her arms around me and let me have a little taste. I said goodnight to her and that was that night. A few nights later, I told her I was going
to be cooking and that she should come over which leads me to...

***Tip 1***
One of the best techniques is to invite a girl over for dinner at your place, especially if you know how to cook. I find that many women don't know how to cook or only "cook" stuff like
Mac and Cheese and other junk. The best part about this is they get to see your skill, which is pretty attractive to women when you can make a good meal,
and you have the most control because it is your own place. The other part, is make sure you don't start making dinner until she is already at your place, she's not getting an entirely
free meal! Make her help. If she refuses, use the C&F techniques and have her do something. Put her on a task that's not too difficult so she can't mess it
up. For example, if you're making lasagna, make her grate cheese or something (making her wash dishes is rather insulting unless you're doing most of them and she wants to help, which
she just might). And when you're all done with dinner, take it to the couch and turn on the TV or watch a movie or something. Which brings me to...

***Tip 2*** If you're sitting down next to a girl that you're talking to in a private setting and you get a little of that silence, not the awkward kind, but the kind where you just kind of
look at each other. If you're thinking to yourself "should I be kissing her?". The answer is a screaming "YES". This can be preceded by the "kiss Test" as well, but I know a lot of guys will
still have insecurities about this kind of thing. Think about it this way. If you don't kiss her, then she'll probably think you're a wuss because you don't have the balls to do something she
probably wants you to anyways. After talking with a number of my girl-friends, I've found out that if a guy tries to kiss a girl, unless there is an obvious unattraction, she will most likely
go with the kiss. At any rate, in this day and age, she's not going to slap you and walk out the door. It's not like you grabbed her crotch or something.

***Tip 3*** MC from the Mediterranean asked a question about calling the next day. I just wanted to point out you have already answered this question in some form and you know
what to do! You can generally sense if a girl is sensitive about something like that. If not, send her some sort of message that next day, preferably email, but if
you're on the phone, have something you're on the way to or busy with. Call, say "hi" and that you had a great time, don't ask how she's doing or what she thinks about what or if she
had a good time, but find some way to use C&F to make a light conversation that will keep her wondering and even thinking about you. Don't bring up the sex unless she does so in a
favorable manner.

***Tip 4*** Not so much a getting girls technique, but rather something you need to do alone. In your spare
time or even when doing mindless tasks, go over your past failed attempts when you have a clear head about them and think about what happened. You'd be surprised at how easy it is
to find the things that went wrong. You'll also be surprised to find out that these are probably mistakes you make all the time! This is the best way to
recognize the problem and rectify it so that its not repeated. Your techniques are nearly
priceless and have stroked the confidence of guys everywhere. I've even recommended it to friends
that have some serious wuss problems. I have yet to see if they've taken it to heart or even subscribed, but I'll help them yet! Things are going great with that girl and I know it wouldn't
have happened if it weren't for your book. Its now become second nature, and you get all the credit. Thanks again Dave Your once Jedi Apprentice, now
Master, D.M.

>>>MY COMMENTS:
Great ideas... great. Nothing else needs to be said... Except that you stole those ideas from me,loser.
Nice!